PROTOCOL
This is the structure you operate within.
If you have reviewed My session requirements, what follows are the behavioral standards that govern our dynamic. These protocols are mandatory, non-negotiable, and apply to all submissives without exception. Read carefully.
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I work with submissives from all backgrounds who meet My screening criteria.
I do not see anyone under 25.
I do not see LEOs, CBP, DHS, or ICE agents, nor their sympathizers or supporters.
If either describes you, do not apply.
Compatibility is determined through screening and consultation.
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I am a lesbian. I do not date clients.
Do not pursue romantic or personal relationships with Me. Do not express romantic feelings or request personal engagement beyond our professional dynamic.
Our relationship is Dominatrix and submissive. Nothing more.
Violations result in immediate and permanent dismissal.
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Address Me as Mistress Maddie in all communication.
All applicants use the application form on My website. Direct contact is reserved for established clients only.
All communication must be purposeful. Casual contact is not welcome.
For phone sessions, use NiteFlirt or SextPanther. These platforms are for fantasy only, not for arranging or discussing real-time sessions.
Session-day communication is for logistics only. Do not send casual messages or unnecessary updates. If you are running late or need to address a logistical issue, contact Me immediately.
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Screening is mandatory and non-negotiable.
I am returning to independent practice after an extended hiatus. Identity verification is now standard for all bookings. All past clients are required to complete the full screening process, regardless of when we last met.
I require:
Your phone number
Identity verification via your LinkedIn profile
A clear photo of your current government-issued ID (you may obscure your address and ID number)
Two recent professional Dominatrix references attached to your initial application
Alert your references that I will be contacting them to ensure timely verification.
New clients without professional Dominatrix references must complete alternative screening: phone number, LinkedIn profile, photo ID, and a paid in-person consultation at $200/hour.
All applications are submitted to My secure and encrypted email.
All personal and identifying information you disclose will be kept confidential.
New submissives undergo a brief 15-minute phone consultation ahead of our scheduled session. During this consultation, we will discuss your interests, limits, and session structure to ensure mutual understanding and safety.
Do not apply if you are unwilling to screen.
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I require a 25% deposit for all first sessions and sessions of 3 hours or longer.
Do not send the deposit until I have requested it.
Once your application is approved and screening is complete, I will provide deposit payment instructions.
The deposit is due within 48 hours of screening approval.
Your session date, time, and details will be confirmed once the deposit is received.
Deposits are non-refundable.
With 72-hour notice, deposits transfer to a rescheduled session.
Cancellations with less than 72 hours' notice forfeit the deposit entirely.
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If I must cancel due to illness or emergency, your deposit will transfer to a rescheduled session.
You will have priority scheduling for the new date and time.
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I am sober. When you are in My presence, you will be sober as well.
Intoxication of any kind (alcohol, drugs, or lingering impairment) is not tolerated during sessions.
If I suspect it, I will end the session immediately, without refund, and you will be banned from future sessions.
Clarity and consent are non-negotiable.
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Session safety is non-negotiable.
All sessions are conducted with clear boundaries, explicit consent, and RACK (Risk-Aware Consensual Kink) principles.
All equipment is sanitized and safety-checked before use.
You must disclose any medical, psychological, or physical conditions that could affect a session. All conditions must be included in your initial application and confirmed during our consultation.
You may not bring weapons, illegal substances, or engage in any conduct that threatens safety. Violations will end the session immediately without refund.
I will modify or refuse any activity if I assess increased risk.
If at any point either of us calls a stop, the scene stops without exception.
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The dungeon where I conduct sessions is fully equipped. I maintain a comprehensive collection of fetish attire and implements.
Specific requests for My attire or equipment must be communicated clearly in advance. If I do not own the requested item, you are responsible for providing it or covering the cost.
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I rarely accept doubles sessions. Each request is evaluated independently.
When I do accept, the accompanying Domme will be selected in consultation with you. The session will be planned and directed by the Dommes involved.
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All phones and electronic devices must be silenced and stored out of reach upon arrival.
No recording devices, cameras, smartwatches, smart glasses, or surveillance technology of any kind are permitted.
If I suspect any recording or surveillance, the session will end immediately without refund, and you will be banned from future sessions.
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I am open to filming select sessions for My commercial fetish film platforms.
Filming requires your explicit consent, copies of your government-issued ID, and completion of industry-standard model release documentation.
I am selective about who I film with and reserve the right to decline filming any session.
I direct all photography and videography. You may not film or photograph Me under any circumstances.
Sessions that include filming do not receive discounted rates. You will receive a complimentary copy of the finished video you appear in.
All standard session policies, boundaries, and safety protocols remain in effect during filmed sessions.
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If you are ill, contact Me immediately to reschedule.
Arriving unwell will result in immediate dismissal without refund.
You must arrive freshly showered with clean hands and fresh breath.
Strong fragrances, cologne, or scented products are not permitted.
Failure to meet these standards will forfeit session time while you address the issue or result in immediate session termination, both at My discretion.
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Arrive exactly on time.
Text or call upon arrival. I will provide entry instructions.
Arrival must be discreet. If circumstances require early arrival, do not approach the building. Text and wait for further instruction.
Late arrival does not extend your session. Sessions end at the scheduled time.
No-shows require full session payment before future booking is considered.
Never share the address or location with anyone.
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My rates reflect My expertise and exclusivity.
They are non-negotiable.
Attempts to negotiate at any point will end all communication immediately.
Deposits are handled electronically.
All remaining tribute is presented in cash before the session begins, placed discreetly in an unsealed envelope or a carefully chosen book.
Present tribute within the first few minutes of arrival, before we discuss the session.
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Appropriate tribute honors boundaries and demonstrates respect for My preferences. Thoughtful gestures beyond My session fee are welcome when offered through appropriate channels.
I maintain wishlists on Throne and Amazon where you may select gifts and experiences that please Me.
Financial demonstrations of devotion can be sent to My online platforms.
If you wish to send tribute through another method, discuss this with Me directly.
Unsolicited packages, deliveries, or gifts are not permitted and will be refused.
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Physical contact during sessions is initiated and permitted by Me only.
Never touch Me without explicit permission.
During public outings, the same rule applies. I will initiate any physical contact, and you will follow My lead without assuming familiarity.
Violations of this boundary will end the session immediately without refund, and you will be banned from future sessions.
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We will establish safe words before every session. Your boundaries and limits will be discussed and confirmed before we begin.
Your safe word will stop all activity immediately and without question. Use it the moment you feel uncertain, uncomfortable, or need to pause.
There is no penalty or judgment for using your safe word. If you cannot speak, we will establish a non-verbal signal before the session begins.
Safe words exist to protect you and ensure informed consent throughout our time together.
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Respectful conduct is mandatory. Sessions proceed per the negotiated agreement.
See My Limits page for activities in which I do not engage.
All limits are honored. Use your safe word or verbal communication if you feel discomfort or uncertainty.
I reserve the right to modify or end the session based on My assessment of safety and well-being.
Violations result in immediate session termination without refund.
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Aftercare is included in your session time and typically lasts 15 minutes.
This time allows you to reorient yourself after intense play. I provide water and space for you to process the session. We will briefly discuss the experience, address any concerns, and ensure you are grounded before departure.
Aftercare is a safety protocol. It is not therapy, debriefing, or extended conversation.
If you require extended aftercare, communicate this need during our consultation call. Extended aftercare requires advance arrangement and may require additional booking time.
When our session concludes, gather your belongings and depart. Overstaying is neither permitted nor tolerated.
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After sessions, contact Me to schedule future appointments or address time-sensitive concerns.
Lengthy expressions of gratitude, session recaps, or requests for reassurance sent without tribute are neither appropriate nor welcome.
I reserve the right to respond or not respond to any message at My sole discretion.
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During public outings together, follow My lead.
Do not discuss our arrangement or its nature with anyone.
An appropriate cover story will be established at the beginning of the outing.
Physical contact will be initiated by Me only.
If we encounter each other unexpectedly in public, do not acknowledge or approach Me under any circumstances.
Complete discretion protects both of our privacy.
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Complete discretion is mandatory.
Do not post reviews, descriptions, or any discussion of our sessions on public platforms, boards, forums, or social media.
Private referrals to vetted individuals are acceptable.
If I request a testimonial, I will provide guidance.
Violations will result in being banned from future sessions.
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Confidentiality is absolute and mutual.
All personal and identifying information you provide is stored securely, encrypted, and never disclosed.
I maintain professional discretion. You are required to maintain the same standard.
Do not discuss, describe, or share any details of our sessions or arrangement without My explicit written consent.
Violations will result in being banned from future sessions.